[Dorumon spreads his claws, in an almost humanlike helpless gesture.]
I agree. We SHOULD be able to discuss anything with our partners. They should feel like they can tell us anything. We'll keep it a secret if they want.. but I think.. Some of them don't really understand that it's okay to rely on others, or just don't want to for other reasons. My own rarely talks to me, and never about things that seem to upset him the most. He says he's 'stronger than that'... and he won't talk to me about what's wrong. I think maybe yours is the same way.
[It's a sad situation, and one Dorumon did not approve of. But he knew it had to be adapted to. If their Chosen woudn't, they'd have to instead..]
It's kind of scary, not knowing if your Chosen even likes you, but if he hasn't told you to go away and that you're unwanted yet then he probably does like you. But if he's afraid or angry or hurt, there's not a lot you can really do except be there for him when he needs you. Maybe bring him nice things to eat or drink. There's a lot of ways to show you care at least, even if he won't in return. Maybe he'll come to appreciate it...
[Dorumon wanted to offer some better solution, but he hadn't found one yet.]
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I agree. We SHOULD be able to discuss anything with our partners. They should feel like they can tell us anything. We'll keep it a secret if they want.. but I think.. Some of them don't really understand that it's okay to rely on others, or just don't want to for other reasons. My own rarely talks to me, and never about things that seem to upset him the most. He says he's 'stronger than that'... and he won't talk to me about what's wrong. I think maybe yours is the same way.
[It's a sad situation, and one Dorumon did not approve of. But he knew it had to be adapted to. If their Chosen woudn't, they'd have to instead..]
It's kind of scary, not knowing if your Chosen even likes you, but if he hasn't told you to go away and that you're unwanted yet then he probably does like you. But if he's afraid or angry or hurt, there's not a lot you can really do except be there for him when he needs you. Maybe bring him nice things to eat or drink. There's a lot of ways to show you care at least, even if he won't in return. Maybe he'll come to appreciate it...
[Dorumon wanted to offer some better solution, but he hadn't found one yet.]